How Interactive Counselling is here for you How Interactive Counselling is here for you

Why Interactive Counselling?

How are you different?

What can you do to help me?

How many sessions do I need?



These are some of the questions that we receive when potential clients call to inquire about counselling sessions. And they are GREAT questions! So great in fact, that we thought we would take this opportunity to write about it!


Firstly, our practice is called Interactive Counselling for a purpose. We strongly believe in “interacting” with clients on their level. We will meet you where you are at in your mental health, and where you want to be physically for your counselling sessions. Our Counsellors want to ensure that you are as comfortable as possible, as making the first step in seeking help can be extremely difficult for many.


We are different because we work WITH clients. Every single one of our Counsellors caters to their client based on their individual needs. We are not a factory style counselling practice; our approach will differ between each client! We consider what works for you, and encourage open communication between Counsellor and client.  If something isn’t working for you, don’t be shy! Tell us. We don’t want to give you homework that won’t fit to your life (Example: we won’t tell you to read a book if you are a slow reader, dyslexic or maybe just hate reading).


At Interactive Counselling we have full belief that there are a million ways to do a million things, which means when our Counsellors work with a client, we can find just the right fit for you. Don’t worry—it won’t hurt our feelings if you tell us something doesn’t work for you! So please feel comfortable to speak up to your Counsellor! We are on your team!!!  We are here to create a plan and provide you the tools to lead a happy, healthy and productive life.  Our Counsellors will ensure to collaborate with you throughout your therapeutic journey, standing by you and supporting you every step of the way.


But don’t let this method trick you! Our Counsellors WILL offer you accountability. In fact, we thrive off of it!  While we believe in ensuring that things work for you, that won’t give you a “free pass” to not TRY the tools we provide.  If something doesn’t work, that’s fine—but we then ask the question WHY doesn’t it work? And in order for us to know why, it means that you actually need to participate in doing our homework. This will assist your Counsellor in understanding you better. What works, what doesn’t work, and how we can build from there. Accountability to your own self-growth is a key component to us catering our approach to you and your needs. Each client operates differently, thinks differently, reacts differently—no one is the same! Yes, people can be similar, but not one client is exactly the same as another. We recognize that, and that is why we are so successful in helping our clients.

Now to talk about the dreaded “H” word—yes, that’s right! We give HOMEWORK!!!! But please don’t let that scare you away from reaching out for help. And no, it won’t be like writing a report. Your homework will be focused on your self-growth, and again, will vary based on your needs (Are you getting the hint yet? That we focus on YOU!!!! And love doing it like that).  It will help you obtain you goals at a quicker rate, moving you in forward direction towards an improved mental health state. Your Counsellor will ensure that it is something you will actually do (even though it may take some effort), and review it each session. The counselling process isn’t just the one or two hours that you come in for weekly, bi-weekly or monthly! It is a practice that you as the client put into place and exercise the tools that you have learned in the session with your Counsellor. So please do not expect to come in for a session and think that it will make everything better without you utilizing what you have learned in your regular day to day life.


It’s a good reminder that practice doesn’t make perfect! Practice makes permanent!!! Even Michael Jordan will miss a shot despite being one of the best basketball players in history. But because he practices so much, he is a consistent player, a strong player. And that is what we strive to help our clients achieve—a consistent and productive life that they want that may not result in perfect, but results in them gaining the strength to get through anything that they face.


In order to gain the skills that we have been talking about, we always say to our clients—Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable. And what we mean by that, is that we want you to feel comfortable in the environment you choose for your counselling sessions, and we want you to be comfortable with your Counsellor, BUT we don’t want you to feel comfortable in your therapeutic journey at all times. With remaining in your comfort zone, you will never get to the point of growth. Our promise is to you that we will push your comfort zone to ensure we are moving forward in the counselling process therefore improving your mental health, but we will never cross your boundary.   All of us at Interactive Counselling absolutely love the saying “Great things never came from comfort zones”.  It is so true! We guide you throughout our time together, resulting in clients actually being excited to push their own boundaries. Please remember, we go at your pace—you’re always in control! That’s a key component to our working relationship with each client. If you ever feel like it’s too much or too fast, all you have to do is let us know! We don’t want you to get discouraged at any point in our time together.


Many ask how many sessions they need, and quite honestly, it varies from person to person, and goal to goal. Some clients come in for one session seeking guidance on one matter, but find that they actually have more to work on. Others can complete their journey with us rather quickly. We often tell our clients that we are working our way out of a job! The more skills we provide you, the less you will need us. But know, that no matter the length between sessions, we are always here for you! We have had clients return after over five years because they came across something they have never had to deal with before and needed a little extra help. Our Counsellors are very open with clients, and come up with a treatment plan that is customized for you. However, sometimes things up that you didn’t see coming! Which can be our favourite, because that is an area that you can grow in that you didn’t even realize! How fun!!


No matter which location you visit, and what Counsellor you see, you will find support, kindness and compassion. At Interactive Counselling we are committed to you, from beginning to end!


We Offer:


  • Kelowna Counselling Services
  • Grande Prairie Counselling Services
  • Online Video Chat Counselling Services
  • Phone Counselling Services
  • Email Counselling Services
  • Text Counselling Services


Types of Counselling We Offer:


  • Individual Counselling
  • Youth Counselling
  • Marriage Counselling
  • Couple’s Counselling
  • Family Counselling
  • Co-Parent Counselling
  • Life Coaching
  • Corporate and Company Coaching
  • Athletic Counselling and Mental Coaching


Area’s that our Counsellors work in (but not limited to):


  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Trauma
  • Relationship
  • Autism
  • Abuse
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Physical Abuse
  • Children and Youth
  • Anger Management
  • Addictions


Interactive Counselling understands that you may work during the day, or shift work, or maybe you need to get a babysitter so you can put your 100% focus on yourself during your sessions, so we try to make it easier! We offer a variety of hours including daytime, evening and even weekends to ensure that your schedule won’t be the thing that prevents you from getting help. If there are times that you need outside of our hours please do not hesitate to contact us, as we will do our best to accommodate your needs.



Our Counsellors would be honoured to work with you. We are committed to creating productive stepping-stones for you to work towards a happier and more confident life that you deserve.



To book with our Kelowna Counsellors please call or text us at (250) 859-4485 or visit our online booking site here



To book with our Grande Prairie Counsellors please call or text at (780) 512-8462 or visit our online booking site here

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Fear, worry, a future unknown. If you’re like most people, you are
glued to your social media and reading the words that conjure up
feelings of anxiety and depression. Due to the amount of information
at our disposal, we can become overwhelmed trying to figure out what
is the right information we need to be looking at in order to make
plans for our future. No control, more anxiety. No one is immune to
the feelings that are generated from this vast unknown and loss, and
while we may not be totally immune, we are very capable of handling
the feelings of depression and anxiety when we are taught the proper

There are many tools out there that are used to help us handle our
emotions, which is a good as “one size does not fit all”. The one I am
going to share is one I use quite often during times like this;
Attitude of Gratitude. I like to use this tool as it not only helps me
remember what I do have moving forward into tomorrow, it also grounds
me in “the here and now”; helps me focus on today. Of all the tools we
have at our disposal, this one is by far the easiest one to do when we
are at our most depressed and anxious. It is also the one that is easy
to practice on a daily basis as it only takes a minute a day to do.

The idea is that everyday; the time being your choice (I do this while
drinking my morning coffee…soooooo grateful for coffee!), that you
pick 3 things that you are grateful for. When starting this people
sometimes have a hard time with it as our brains do not have the
tendency to go to the positive, but rather the negative. Annoying! So
we have to take the time everyday to practice! It can be as easy and
being grateful for a piece of chocolate or being able to view a
beautiful sunset, or more complex as being grateful for health, life,
and family; the great part is it can be anything!

Today I am grateful that I am alive and healthy; my family still
remains healthy; and that even though there is scary stuff going on in
the world, there is still beautiful and loving people in it showing us
that not matter what, we can still make a difference for the better.

What are you grateful for?

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Parents Crying In Front Of Kids Parents Crying In Front Of Kids

“I don’t want to cry in front of my kids”
“I don’t want my kids to see me cry”
“I don’t want to scare my kids if I am crying”

These are things that I am hearing from many parents. Do you want to know what I tell every single parent???


It’s OK to cry in front of your kids. But explain to them why you are crying (in an age appropriate way). Crying is a release, and it makes you feel better; so don’t hold it in.

Right now there is a lot to cry about! Isolation creates a deep rooted feeling of being alone. Children are not in their normal routines, which causes them to have behaviours; and after a month of this, they may be bouncing off of the walls. This can cause parents frustration, and let’s be honest! Our fuse is short. This alone can cause many parents to cry, and that’s OK! If you don’t cry, you will release the emotion in other ways—most often anger.

Crying is NOT a sign of weakness. It is natural. And it is important that we role model to our kids that you don’t need to be strong at all times. This teaches our kids to process their emotions, instead of holding their feelings in. By crying in front of them, it teaches them many things!

My favourite way to explain to kids about how crying helps is below:

Tears are like magic!!! When you cry, you feel better. If you fall on the ground and hit your knee, you cry. And that’s OK! And when you cry, do you feel better? (This helps give them a relatable example of how crying helps) They say Yes (at least 99% of the time).

By providing them an example of when they may cry, and how it makes them feel after, it teaches them to recognize their feelings. Being able to identify feelings is not a natural thing despite what people may think; it really is a skill.

It is also important to tell your kids why you are crying (when appropriate). It can be especially beneficial if they are the ones who are causing the frustration that leads to the tears, as it can teach them that their actions impact other people; even their parents.

Parents, now is the time to give yourself grace, and give children grace. We ALL have less patience for one another (yes, even kids) through this time. Remember to recognize your feelings, communicate them productively, and process them. You will feel a lot better when you do!

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Coping with Covid 19 Coping with Covid 19

Lately I have been doing quite a few interviews on how to keep sane during the Covid19 isolation time that we all are experiencing, so I thought I’d share key points with you!

A HUGE factor in your mental health will to be establish a new normal. Our worlds have been turned upside down through no fault of our own, causing us to have some trying times.

Many are working from home, or may be experiencing a job loss, and kids are now home due to schools and daycare being closed. Talk about a disruption to your life!! Balancing work and the responsibilities of caring for your kids at the same time can be overwhelming. So let’s make a routine!

People THRIVE off of routines. It’s a great idea to WRITE down (you all know how much I love writing things down) a routine for yourself and your family. Have similar wake up times that you did prior to being housebound. Keep your meal times and snack times the same. Incorporate physical activity in your daily regime. Doing all of these things on a regular basis will help you stay out of a funk, and create a productive environment for not only you but your family. Make appointments with your friends, family and other support systems to check in regularly. Carving out times and preplanning to connect with others ensures that you make the time, and take the time to socialize.

For kids, do the same. Establish a routine that can be carried out consistently. Just as yourself, create a plan that has the same wake up times each day, same meal times, physically activity, and their household and/or school work responsibilities. Using visual markers such as charts or checklists for kids will not only help them carry out the routine, but it will build their self esteem and self worth from the act of completing a task. Create a rewards system for things that they enjoy. Don’t forget to include them in socialization as well by doing things like video calling grandparents, aunts and uncles, or even their friends.

We are hoping that this new normal will not be around for long, but in the meantime, it is important to create a routine around this situation to ensure your mental health is cared for.

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Date Nights Date Nights

Right now it seems like society is in survival mode. Getting through each day, whether it be with dealing with anxiety and stress of the unknown, or the madhouse your kids are creating (let’s be honest, we are all bouncing off the walls a bit), right now is a time where most are putting their relationship on a back burner. It may not be intentional, but it is most likely happening (at least if you have children).

Your relationship doesn’t have to be in a bad place for you to put work into it. But it is important to take the time, yes even during isolation, to spend MINDFUL time with your spouse. No, I am not talking about watching TV together or being in the same room. I am talking about making a plan to do an activity, just the two of you. Pick an evening (or even a naptime if you have little ones) to have a date night in. This creates a point of connection, that isn’t based around the stress or frustrations that can be accompanied with staying home. Do this once a week, and take turns planning. I encourage you to pick the same night weekly to ensure that it is part of your weekly routine, and that your relationship doesn’t continually fall down your priority list.

Are you stuck on what a date night in could look like?? We have compiled a short list to get you going!

– Play a board game
– Do you a puzzle
– Make a meal together
– Have a picnic at home
– Have a fondue
– Do a workout together
– Write down questions and put them in a bowl, take turns pulling them out and answer them
– Try on online “paint night”
– Each pick a new hobby and introduce it to one another
– At home wine tasting
– Order in and just sit together with no kids around
– Catch up on folding some laundry (JUST KIDDING, although that does sound like a good way to tackle the never ending laundry pile)

There are many resources online you can access to help you further if you aren’t creative yourself.

Don’t forget! Add date nights to your routine to ensure that you make your spouse and your relationship a top priority.

Happy Dating!

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